boo-yah

You see hatred is a quelling thing, the harsh reality and the best reality that makes us unapologetically human  is the fact that we can sense emotions ,sense emotions in such a way that it tends to lift oneself up  to wuthering heights as well as fuck oneself in a tirade like the Bermuda triangle . This sense of emotion can vary from a very trivial matter to a matter of utmost importance like losing a loved one.

So how does one get away from this unwanted emotion, the simple answer is one 'does not 'or simply `one cannot' because no matter what,  this thing called emotions binds us in such a way that it’s connected somehow to the overall functioning of our lives  dating back to things and experiences that shaped us and truth be spoken every individual has their own story to tell.

Sometimes when bad emotions or experiences take a toll on us, different people have different approaches to deal with it.  Some pacify themselves and move on, in most cases the wonders of words come to rescue, making oneself stronger, more acceptable about the inevitable and ready to tackle the world. In extreme scenarios, some flee to some poor part of Asia  and try to save the world or worse still some plan it on the back of their heads on joining a jihadi group to fight the injustices of the world.

After having said the most basic fundamental nature of being a social , rational and an emotional being , its hard enough to deal with the complexities and perplexities of life but amidst all of these it’s still in your own personal realm to look at things the way you want to , not everything that is bitter has to be bitter , if one can segregate the bitter with the object emanating bitter , perhaps one wouldn’t be as miserable as one could be .

The truth is having a clear conscience and innate goodness is what matters after all, its okay to hate the bitters/lows of our life however, make it a healthy hating and hate the cause that triggers the situation but not the source/person that is behind it.

Funny thing is the vulnerability of human beings only exposes itself with people they are closest with or with the ones they love so deeply. for e.g.: when a lovers trait of characters unifies with his loves trait of characters, there is a harmony and unison but at the same time when it begins to disrupt that similar trait of character identifies with the lover himself and a hatred propels towards him which becomes a common cause of failed relationships .

Things happen, situations and circumstances take its own toll, it’s very natural for things to happen the way they are and even if we begin to question, things go unanswered although it might bring in a little bit of clarity for some . Amongst all of these there are certain things that are better left unquestioned, one just has to live through it till one breathes.  

Sometimes it’s okay to be irrational or mean , it’s just so liberating …..

Ending up in lady Gagas tune “im on the right track, baby I was born this way”

smrii